Graft Dating is affordable matchmaking the way it used to work: one person, doing the work of actually understanding you, and introducing you to someone worth meeting. No algorithm. No infinite scroll. No profiles designed to keep you swiping instead of meeting someone.

1. Eligibility check. Before anything else, we make sure you’re a good fit for Graft Dating: based in London, and genuinely open and intentional about finding a relationship. This isn’t a formality — it’s where we check that from both sides. Message us today on +44 7429 398306 to schedule a call with a Graft Matchmaker.
2. ID verification & onboarding. Every client is ID-verified, so everyone in our network is genuinely who they say they are. This stage also includes your discovery meeting — the time it takes to properly understand who you are, what you’re looking for, and what’s actually worked or not worked for you before. Your first date with a match is included.
3. The search. Once onboarding is complete, you’re added to our waiting list and we start looking. We check our existing network first and headhunt beyond it when your search calls for someone new.
4. Introduction. When we find someone we think is right, we handle the date logistics and introduce you to your match through a blind date.
5. The date, and what happens after. We handle the logistics so all you have to do is show up. Afterwards, we ask for feedback because every introduction that follows is shaped by what we learn from the last one.